Not in My Family

Not in My Family

German Memory and Responsibility After the Holocaust

Book - 2017
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Winner of the 2018 Western Canada Jewish Book AwardWinner of the 2017 Canadian Jewish Literary AwardShortlisted for the 2018 Vine Book Award for Canadian Jewish LiteratureEven as the Holocaust grows more distant with the passing of time, its traumas call out to be known and understood. What is remembered, what has been imparted through German heritage, and what has been forgotten? Can familiar family stories be transformed into an understanding of the Holocaust'sforbidding reality?Author Roger Frie is uniquely positioned to answer these questions. As the son of Germans who were children during World War II, and with grandparents who were participants in the War, he uses the history of his family as a guide to explore the psychological and moral implications of memory againstthe backdrop of one of humanity's darkest periods. From his perspective of a life lived across German and Jewish contexts, Frie explores what it means to discover the legacy of a Nazi past. Beginning with the narrative of his grandfather, he shows how the transfer of memory from one Germangeneration to the next keeps the Holocaust at bay.Not in My Family is rich with poignant illustration: Frie beautifully combines his own story with the stories of others, perpetrators and survivors, and the generations that came after. As a practicing psychotherapist he also draws on his own experience of working with patients whose lives have beendirectly and indirectly shaped by the Holocaust. Throughout, Frie proceeds with a level of frankness and honesty that invites readers to reflect on their own histories and to understand the lasting effects of historical traumas into the present.
Publisher: Canada :, Oxford University Press,, 2017
ISBN: 9780199372553
Branch Call Number: 940.5318 FRI (Dayson Collection)
Characteristics: 312 pages ; 2 x 23 cm


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